remember he is taking himself with him, so all changes are really within many people change environment to hope for that internal shift..but it doesn't work like that
Very well said Peace. They are stuck with themselves. All changes they make concerning their surroundings are superficial and based on lies anyway. Good luck to him on that.
Nel, so sorry you are here. I'm glad you are not a lurker anymore though. Its important to let it all out here. You seem very knowledgeable about MLC already and that should help you detach. Also listen to your D's. they see more than we can we see. My D's tell me things they saw about my STBXW personality change way before i even noticed it. Love is blind.
You already know what you need to do, Detach and move on with your life. Your H followed last time. Let him bake some more. Don't give him the power to decide if and when he comes back. You decide, it's your life.
M51 XW43 (38 at bd) BD1 MAY 30 2015 BD2 JUNE 25 2015 by text moved out Aug 2 2015 left both Daughters 13 and 15 (now 18-20) Her divorce Final July 26 2016 Last time she saw her kids Aug 2 2015
