One thing I'm sure about - this whole experience has taught me to never take a relationship for granted, and that constant work is required for relationships to succeed. I hope I get to the point to where I learn what kind of work is needed for sustained relationships, but right now I'm clueless.
Well said. Wonka recommended a book to me called "The Lost Art of Listening". I keep talking about it on here. It's good, especially after the first few chapters. There's another one called "Fierce Conversations" that I started and will someday finish. For me, the way to keep working on a relationship is to communicate more effectively. That's my work now while I'm separated from W. (Separated is an optimistic term, btw.)
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
