No, I am not completely to blame and I am not responsible for her decisions in life' It made me feel a little stronger
Keefa- I can tell you from only being on these boards a few months that many many stories are the same as yours or close to it.
A relationship involves 2 people so if someone wants to blame someone else 100% they are just sticking their head in the sand.
I was told I am the reason she is leaving me which I understand the areas I own but she refuses to see anything that helped enable some of my actions or lack thereof. 2 people....2 owners.
This time is a tough one for you. I had a personal meltdown last night envisioning moving out and leaving my great home , neighborhood, dogs and D and STBX.....its a loss. And we cant sweep it away overnight
All we can hope is to make sure we know that we are not the only reason this happened and to build, fix and repair yourself and maybe your R.
No magic dust as I would take some today if it was avaialble. Keep the faith...you will be fine
_________________________ Me-48 Spouse-WAW 52 Married for 10 years D7 ILYBNILWY 7/15 Suspect EA/PA 12/15 No confirmation/denial She files 1/2016 Working towards the Big D ...still in progress....
