You're stronger than I am NYGal. That will serve you well. I wish I could advise you what to do this minute but this could potentially be a very bad situation. I don't know your W well enough to know if she's just being a drama queen knowing you'll respond if she sends you a "the sky is falling" message or if this is out of character and she might in the mindset of having a breakdown or harming herself. You know that better than we do so please respond accordingly.
