W texted:"What's going on with me????? I'm a liar, a cheater, and very lazy. I've got severe depression and anxiety, am not deserving of you or anyone else. I'm a low life who can't function. That's what's going on with me."
A minute later: "I need help."

Me: I'm so sorry you feel this way. That's a lot to deal with.

Taken right from the validation statements.

I'm kind of worried about her.

11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat