To get through things with some humor, when the cancer prognosis came in she was like "oh great, we just start to recover from my stupidity and now God is going to kill me as punishment for what I did." I told her I don't think God works that way.
Thanks for answering this.
I seem to see many people that go through this process get hit with all sorts of disease. Some of my research shows that stress and the changes that occur to your body during this time make us susceptible to disease. For some reason(maybe hormones) the bodies weakest links are attacked during midlife. My knee was bad during high school and college. So was my ankle and shoulder, wouldn't you know that now those are all the problems that I have are in those parts of my body. Those women that go through postpartum depression are more likely to have MLC's and depression later in life too.
Please keep posting on your thread and sharing your story here. You have posted it on other peoples threads but for transparency it is a great idea to put some of it here too.
