It is good to hear you sounding stronger. I would almost encourage anything for an ego boost when I see you as low as you've been. Of course, along with it does come a certain amount of responsibility. Just please, please be careful. You are extremely vulnerable and could fall into another situation before you've had time to heal.
Whenever there are two people, who have suffered a great deal, come together........... both of you may be seeking reassurances that you have a lot to offer the opposite sex.
Is this take away and a movie to be at the house? If you were my son, I would advise you to go to some informal eating place to grab a bit, and then go out to a movie theater. Take her home, see her to the door, and then leave. I know of several cases where they did the take away and movie at home.....and then they slept together, and regretted it afterwards.
It doesn't have to get slippery, if you will keep your wits and don't use her to assure yourself that you can still score with the ladies. Try to keep it light and friendly.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!