NYGal: Still Trying to GAL

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NYGal, when TX showed his W the path, she already wanted to come home. Your W isn't there yet. That's why it worked for him, but not for you. She's not ready!!! That doesn't mean that she won't eventually want that, but she's not there right now. All you're doing is pushing her away. Remember our talk last night. ......Let It Be. You are strong and you can do this. This is not the time to show her the path. You do that when she wants to come home. She's just not ready to give ow up yet. Remember our talk and how you're going to pull away and ACT AS IF you've moved on so she will be that scared little kid on the swing. We talked about all of this. Go through that conversation in your head. Get yourself together. Play it out in your head so you will know what to do. Then, go DB the crap out of her! If she tries talking to you, VALIDATE, VALIDATE, VALIDATE, then be too busy to talk and end the conversation and go on about your business. Do NOT buy her a coffee. Do NOT tell her you miss her. Do NOT under any circumstances flirt with her. You've got this. I have faith in you. A little pain now will shorten how long this will take. Just remember that.