Hey,

Yesterday I looked into the school zone and there was not much available from what I could see, I think I will have to drive around and look to see first hand.

I put my ring back on. Just felt wrong with out it. Not sure how W was able to do it. She never took them off except when she was pregnant. I think she was at the lawyers office and was instructed to take it off.. Her parents were there and I imagine they took it to put in the safe. With it there she has no choice but not wear it or ask parents for it back out of the safe.

I didn't text back W. She didn't call an her way home like usually. Looks like that last talk has changed the dynamic. She came home late. I tool S7 ice skating, he fell asleep on the players bench. W didn't say much but her eyes went right to my ring hand.

I put one child to bed and cuddled with him and fell asleep. I didn't want to really go down and get the youngest that was sitting next to W. I didn't want to see W. I did wake up after an hour and went to the basement to watch a movie. While I am watching it I was hoping she wouldn't come down to talk to me. She didn't and she went to bed with out saying a word.

I go to bed and I could see sticking out of her purse a wedding invitation from her brother with her and the two boys names on it. So looks like I am officially out of the inlaws family. I am surprised because they have other divorced family and both sides are always invited and go to family events. Maybe I am getting my invitation separately? It just blows my mind a little that they wouldn't invite me. Its going to be a big wedding with 150 people there and me who was at every Christmas and Easter ect. wont be.

It does hurt a little. And they know I stopped talking to my family, and haven't seen them for two years, they sort of adopted me into there family, until this.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016