So the morning post arrives. Lots of bills, default notices and bank statement which was interesting. STBXW has removed herself from the joint bank account. Never was there a more clearer sign... I think she is attempting to 'wash hands' of the overdraft etc. We were not heavily in debt but were not rich by any means. The usual bank loan and so on which is now all down to me to sort until it gets sorted though the courts. 2 things I wanted to share. Firstly, I believe the affair (affairs) was a symptom not the cause of our marital problems ( to me they were not that huge) but... the affair has absolutely been a road block to any R or communication. It has made everything sour, terse and toxic. I wonder if they had sex in our house which is why she ran away so fast. Secondly, I have been asked if I want company for a take away and a movie next week by a lady who is in a similarish position to me and lives close by. we have supported each other the last couple of months, She calls it an 'ego boost'. I like the idea and to be honest am not feeling guilty about entertaining the idea of being with someone. Slippery slope ?
me45,W43 S9,S5 T15yrs M10yrs BD 4/07/15 W wants D 4/07/15 W filed 8/05/15 D petition arrived 21/12/15 Merry xmas, W,S5 S9 moved out 5/2/16
