my wife requests space, deattached from me

[WillDo]

The idea is to avoid the pitfalls that we al know is not productive. The centre is experienced in couple therapy. I don't know the individuals.

I have so many should questions.

How much of her affair should I talk about?
How open should i be about myself? Depression, my worries, my panic attacks.
What are more constructive arguments? How can we understand each other?

This morning she has been talkative. She will be travelling far but coming back for the counselling.

I was on training last week and noticed how negative/impatience I was compared to others. It was a negotiation training :-) From Gottman compromise is the key to happiness. So those negotiation rules, don't always count in relationships.