Thanks guys - I'm vegetarian, so it will be a huge veggie lasagne actually Isit wink

Been working hard last few days, and I'm off now. I'm having lunch and then playing Bingo (I know!) with my fun and silly friend later - should be interesting...

Going to start doing a bit of shopping and sorting at the flat ready for the weekend. L came back to me & asked me to resend my email to her. Seems it was missed somehow? Dropped H a quick email apologising for the delay. It's strange that our D may be finalised in just a few weeks. I feel pretty numb about it really - and quite calm, not distressed. Maybe it hasn't fully sunk in yet - or could be that so much else awful has happened, I now just deal with things without the angst. It feels like we haven't had any sort of R for so long, the D is just a further step.

Still reading codependent no more - interesting read - and I have some of these traits for sure. Something to work on going forward.

Hope everyone is having a good week xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus