I'm still on no contact so I have no idea either. I'm focussing on me and learning about boundaries. my counselling has been less about about marriage and more about recognising boundaries & challenging myself not to try & fix everything. the challenge is getting out of the house being more social and mixing.
I'm still open to reconciling, I'm not going to fight if she chooses to go thru with divorce. I think ive actually learnt and grown since this started. I now understand its not my problem to fix her issues and you cant make some one do something they don't want.
you reckon he has a big job? your wise,smart,funny & caring that's a great start have a bit of faith in yourself!
