B's 10-Week Bootcamp

[Bfice3]

Here's a question? Should I agree to let her take the kids on a two week trip and give up my 6 days of custody?

Here's my perspective. 1.) WW has flat out said that if this ends up in court she is going to seek 100% custody, and has made on several occasions, comments about the various things that she will bring up in court to show that I am an alcoholic, a drug addict, a thief. 2.) I visited with a lawyer and she said that North Carolina courts use the number of nights that a child spends with each parent over the course of the separation to determine how the custody and child support arrangements are set up. So, my view is that I want to get as close to 50% custody as I can during the separation so that if and when it ever comes down to it...hopefully, a court would see fit to allow me to have 50% custody no matter what my WW says.

I mean...I didn't tell her she can't take the kids on a trip. All I said was I still wanted my nights with the kids and that I'm willing to re-arrange the calendar to make that happen. That seems reasonable, right?