It's not about winning Bfice. It's about ATTRACTING your wife again.
There are no guarantees. Trust me, I would love a guarantee too.
You have to be ok with you Bfice. The hardest advice I was ever given - STOP NEEDING YOUR WIFE. It's ok to want your wife, but if you need her - that's a bad place to be and you will react from that place.
You gotta let her go before she'll ever come back. Just typing that makes me feel sh!tty but its the truth.