B's 10-Week Bootcamp

[Bfice3]

This was is practically 100% of all communication that has happened between her and I since about January 1st...fyi.

The whole month of January has been complete no contact. That's 25% of the separation thus far.

I'm not taking up for my actions...just saying that the silence really doesn't seem to be doing anything for me. If you look at my last post before the texts...I mean...she never communicates with me. At all.

Literally I may get 10-15 emails that are forwarded with information about the kids schedule. Nothing typed or written. No, here you go. Check this out...nothing. Just an email that is forwarded.

And then, I get maybe 3 texts a week that's something like. S(9) has practice at 7 and D(11) needs to bring her school shoes back.

And that's it. There's just nothing coming from her at all. And I just...I'm just lonely and sad.

She's had time to think. I know I have to go back to no contact. And, I will. I just...hate it. It's not making anything better.

She interprets my silence as negative. How do I win with that?