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Bfice - what is your goal?

Are you fed up and want to end your marriage? Or are you trying to work on it? Im confused.


Great question. I don't know. I don't think I have any chance of saving my marriage I guess. It hurts so much, and there is simply never any communication from my wife at all about us.

I'm trying to detach...but frankly...I don't want to. I think I am getting better...I guess. I don't know. I'm posting all of this so that hopefully someone out there smarter than me can tell me what is going on.

I'm lost. I feel hopeless. And...I just don't ever get the sense from her that there is any way this ever works out.

Me:41 - LBH in apt
W:39 - WW in home
Kids:D(15), D(11), S(9) - custody % 58/42
M: 15 yrs - DoS: 10-11-15
(PA confirmed 2-12-16; WW dumped by AP 11-6-15; WW dated 7-8 men in Jan '16 via Match.com)