Sounds like OM got kicked out of his place. Sounds like he told my W he loves her and wants to be with her. Part of me wants her to go down that road and see how ugly it will end up for her. I'll be fine.

Since we are broke finances are not a big deal. I have money that is my dads that we were holding in case he goes in a nursing home. Even better news is it's invested through my wife's brother. I might pull it out and give it to my brother who I can trust. Plus my dad isn't doing well and If he passes there is quite a bit of money. I might just have my brothers take that too and get later.