11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
Rain...I think removing yourself when XF does his phone stuff is a great idea. Telling him why was also good. You are setting boundaries and now he knows what to expect when he crosses them. Phone = No Rain. Very simple and easy for him to understand that his actions will have consequences.
Of course...breaking his phone altogether has a certain appeal too.
Am I to understand that both you and NYGal are on board with me putting a hit out on his phone!? Because I can absolutely get behind THAT!:)
By the way ladies since that talk he has limited his video calls and now wants me to call him on regular voice calls. I know his game though. So I ignored most of his "call me" texts. The only time we've spoken is about apartments for him and he keeps asking me if I'm okay.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
Tell him you're not okay, and restate your conditions.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
Very true Anna. But this wasn't it. I could start both and be even richer! Then it wouldn't matter to me what or who he spends his money on. Nah..that's not true.
After we talked about apartments for him he went silent. It's like what you wrote on NYGals thread. When you think you're okay and then something happens and you aren't. I have that feeling in my stomach again.
