I am so sorry, Keefa, to hear about your struggles. My story is similar with my H having an affair for 6 months. I thought our marriage was fine until he dropped the bomb he wasn't happy. In the last week, he filed for divorce, bought a new house, showed the kids the new house and told them we were proceeding with the divorce. Like you, he seems unmoved by any of the changes I have made or any divorce busting that has been done. It is heartbreaking, but it isn't your fault. I know it is hard to believe because I am feeling low myself right now, but it was our spouse that decided to break their marriage vows without trying to address the problems. I commend you for taking action like running and bath to help boost your spirits. I hope it helped! I empathize with you tonight and hope it will get better....


M 44 H 46
M 20yrs T 25 yrs
S15 S12

ILYBINILWY 7/18/15
Move to MBR 9/8/15
Physical Separation 10/10/15
Suspect A 8/2015
Confirm A 12/27/15
D filed by H 2/2/16