Keefa
Hang in there....dont' blame yourself and as others have said...she has to look herself in the mirror and I am sure she won't like what she sees over time

Maybe we shall all find one big house and it can be like the movie "old school" ...probably save us a ton of cash in the interim :-)

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Me-48
Spouse-WAW 52
Married for 10 years
D7
ILYBNILWY 7/15
Suspect EA/PA 12/15 No confirmation/denial
She files 1/2016
Working towards the Big D ...still in progress....