"I suppose she just doesn't love me anymore and that's that"
Hi RD, thanks for the update. It sounds as though things are much the same with your W. I wouldn't assume this above - I think your W has some things to work through which are more about her than the marriage.
It seems reasonable to look at a legal separation to give you some more surety, and doors can remain open a chink if that's what you choose.
Sorry if things are feeling a little humdrum just now, but spring is on the way.
Take care my friend xx
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
