Found it Squiggy! All caught up with the whole story now. So happy for you man!! I do hope I can reconcile as well. I don't have any children with WW that are in the picture, but still hope So encouraging to see that your strength and patience paid off, I hope I will be that strong in my sitch.
M 43 W 45 M 10.5 T 15 S 26 D 17 (previous relationships) ILYB 12/25/15 + asks for D Confirm affair 1/10/16 W has D ready to sign, but agrees to wait for refinancing to go through (I get a house!)