I also thought and heard that sometimes that come back b4 they finish the crises or the work they say the work is about him his unresolved issues from the past not just the M the M may have had issues but people not on MLC can work through issues You sound pretty good at detaching and moving forward so now is the time to let go and heal take the time for you you can watch your H from a a distance most LBS do seem to land on their feet and if you H decides to turn around, you will be there and be watching carefully as u move forward
Good luck
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