I also thought and heard that sometimes that come back b4 they finish the crises or the work
they say the work is about him his unresolved issues from the past not just the M
the M may have had issues but people not on MLC can work through issues
You sound pretty good at detaching and moving forward
so now is the time to let go and heal
take the time for you
you can watch your H from a a distance
most LBS do seem to land on their feet and if you H decides to turn around, you will be there and be watching carefully as u move forward

Good luck


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow