Know how you feel Chris. I don't think it shows much character / honor for a man to pursue another's wife. My situation is similar, but we don't have children together, the OM will not see my kids. The children involved must make it much more difficult. I guess it's something we can't change, so we accept that we can't change it? It would drive me crazy too. Driving me a little crazy without my children in the OM picture.


M 43 W 45
M 10.5 T 15
S 26 D 17 (previous relationships)
ILYB 12/25/15 + asks for D
Confirm affair 1/10/16
W has D ready to sign, but agrees to wait for refinancing to go through (I get a house!)