Inevitable always happens

[shreeve]

Keefa I'm so sorry. I did similar / put wife through school, never any trouble / fighting / lack of intimacy or anything. She just fell in love with some guy and rewrote history. And I am in a huge house by myself and try to get out of it every night! It's tough being alone by yourself where you used to have your best friend / lover / wife. Betrayal is a traumatic thing for me, and it's tough every day.

I hope you truly believe what Cadet wrote - it's not your fault. Her A is a reflection of her inadequacies, not yours. Doesn't make it much easier on us emotionally, but we can only be accountable for our parts that contributed to the state of the marriage and positive changes we can make to ourselves. I do hope these WW's will see things with a clear head and heart one day, but they might not.

By the way, the run and soak will be awesome! Always makes me feel a bit better.