Had a counseling session today with the STBX about co -parenting.
I lost it ....crying...not around our sitch but when we started to discuss how to talk to our daughter. And "what if she cries"...how do you handle. I know I will melt if she cries when the time comes to tell her
What was interesting was my pushy STBX kept telling the therapist how things should work and she kept correcting her that "this was not the way it should go". An example was not having dinners at all together right now living under the same roof as a family. My STBX said it gives the wrong impression to our D that everything is OK. We shouldn't do it
Therapist said ....WRONG. You should show her it is OK as you still will be a family...just not husband /wife.
I need a vacation.
_________________________ Me-48 Spouse-WAW 52 Married for 10 years D7 ILYBNILWY 7/15 Suspect EA/PA 12/15 No confirmation/denial She files 1/2016 Working towards the Big D ...still in progress....
