Cali, You are right were you need to be right now. Continue to live your life as if you and your son are in your old apartment. That type of focus will take the pressure off of your wife.
I'm very sorry about your glasses and keys...at least they can be replaced.
Dig deeper for patience.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
