Jim, also make sure you are not a wet noodle that bends to your wife's every demand. V brought up very good points, in her magical way, that I was unable to verbalize. Your W left you, moved countries, demanded your balls in her hand, and possibly had an A.
If you do not make changes now to the marriage, then you will be back here again.
I'm not trying to be mean, Jim. I'm just concerned and want nothing but the best for you and your boys.
M: 8.5 T:10 Me:37 W:34 S:6
Retrouvaille and W moves back- 7/31/15 Piecing - 7/4/15 to present