You're hoping too much for your own well-being smile I do want you to hope, but more so I want you to focus.

You've noticed subtle shifts, which means your shifts need to be just as subtle, if not more so. Do not push or pursue just yet. You need to give it enough time to see if she really is turning it all around. Trust her actions, not her words.

It is especially critical at this time to stay the course with GAL, 180s, detachment.

Your W has a tremendous amount of her own work to do. She could be temp checking you or testing the waters of returning to the MR itself. If you haven't before, check into one of sandi's many posts explaining he WAW mentality when it comes to potential R. Keep the path open to her, but don't cash in your chips just yet.

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Part of me fears that I am reading the situation completely wrong, or that she will change her mind and turn away from me.
Very insightful. Could be either. Your path doesn't necessarily change.


M: 8.5 T:10
Me:37 W:34 S:6

Retrouvaille and W moves back- 7/31/15
Piecing - 7/4/15 to present