Thanks Sci, I would never dispose of the picture. If the marriage goes south, I will hold on to it and give it to whichever kid wants it when they get their own place.
I get what you saying and it all makes sense. It's just that it feels like one more indicator going in the wrong direction. Ultimately it does not matter, it is a symptom, not the problem. My wife will decide how she wants to live and I will do the same. In this moment we choose to be married. All we can do is live in the here and now. Peace
