Thanks for the update, MCS! I'm glad I came around to see what was up with you. I welled up when I read the news, probably because I wish I could hear those words from WW one day. It sounds like it's exactly what you wanted, namely more communication and better co-parenting. I must admit that I didn't know when we'd see this and that it might be never. It is very possible, as you say, that it happened because she finally gave up on OM.
How do you feel about D at the moment? Is it still affecting your mood? Any particular challenges? Goals? Still with your GF from the summer?
And thanks a lot for your kind words in your message from November. It's touching to know that you see me as a helpful person through these difficult times that we went through. I'm easily triggered now when I hear of a separation, especially one with a LBH, and I really want to help them. To know that I've done it somehow for you is very touching. I can say the same thing about you, as I see you in a core of LBH that went through the same pain at the same time, and I greatly relied on your virtual presence to keep my head above the water at the time. Thanks a lot!
By the way, I've moved to "Surviving the Big D". Given that the worst is over, that it's been over a year and that I no longer want to R, I didn't fit in with the newcomers anymore. I hope you'll continue to give us an update, especially given the recent movements.
M39 D6 D3 (at S) S 2014-09 D 2016-09
"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.