Hey Red, I'm so sorry that your emotions are being toyed with that way. I think you just have to be tough - he's wanting to see your reaction and that you still care. He prides himself on that. I love the idea of hanging up more pictures of the kiddos, add some of you and the kiddos as well. Just let it roll off like water on a ducks back. He's being ugly about and you know that little thing called karma...it comes around! He'll reap what he sows, and watch you rise above. You got this mama!