Wife's EA has turned into full blown relationship

[Chris82]

Many of you may remember me from a while back when coping with my wife's EA with a coworker and our subsequent separation.

Well as it turns out, divorce is underway for us and is inevitable. However, In the meantime it has come to my attention that my wife is in a full blown relationship with the OM now. There has even been talks on her part to me about how I would "react" with him and around and how she plans on introducing him to our children once the divorce is final.

Is there anyone here that's going through that that can give me some insight on how to deal with a divorced spouse in a relationship with another person.. I'd like to think that it won't last and that he'll eventually go away.. but what if it does?

I can't possibly see me ever having respect for a man like him.. or being comfortable with him around my children. I guess in the long run they are perfect for eachother.. You know.. cheating spouse, morally inept boyfriend. But the struggle of him being a fixture in my life.. disgusts me.