Hello all, I read Jguy's thread and it is really helping me see many of the mistakes I have been making. Sorry Jguy but the beginning of your thread really shows me what not to do.
I am committing to letting go like I said. I am also working on moving on and recapturing some happiness for myself. My goals:
1. Wake up happy and thankful 2. Focus on my kid 3. Join a gym after wrestling season (until then work out hard with the team) 4. Some new clothes for a new me!
Tomorrow I am preparing to meet her and do our taxes. This is not going to be a happy time but I will be prepared. I am also debating about giving her rings back that I took upon discovering the OM. I am trying to think what would the old me do, and then do the opposite. That is a lot easier said than done, the old me may have been angry and just kept them sc*&w her or the old me may have tried to give them back with some "I love you and always wills." This may be a coaching question. Thanks any advice would be appreciated.
Me 41 W 33 M 2013 Suspect A 11/15 Confirm A 1/16 She moved out 2/14/16 Stepson 13 Stepson 16
