So thinking about getting this S done, I need a plan, identify the barriers , remove them, and continue to work on my goal with what ever little increments I can that are manageable for me, keep moving and stay positive.
It seems W tends to have these talks just before she is visiting family or friend. Then it just fuels the conversation for her at the visits.
Plan. I am not sure but I will put a logical plan together not based on feelings or sentiment.
I want to have the kids 50/50 with short stays at each others place. A 3/3/4/4 rotation. This way they can keep going to grandmas and grandpas on Sunday. I will be able to continue with my GAL soccer.
I will need a place to live. I will look for a rental options in the kids school zone. I think it would be best for the kids if they could keep there same friends. Stumbling blocks would be finding a place that has a garage for my hobby car and tools. To solve this barrier I would have to sell hobby stuff. Or pay for storage.
I am trying to get my mind around this life changing event.
W just texted about picking up the kids. I will reply later.
I can just feel this MR imploding, UGHHH Correction keep It positive, I can get through this!!
Me late 30's W mid 30's T 15, M 10 S4, S7 ILYBNILWY June 2015 In house S July 2015 W rings off Oct 2015 My ring off Feb 2015 Separate houses June 2016
