Hey! Dknyc

This totally [censored].

I'm sorry you're here.

Start with Sandi's rules for the wayward wife. (someone with a wife in an affair). It's the perfect thread for you

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2545554#Post2545554

Basically:

1. Take care of your self. Eat well, exercise, get some sleep, do something that distracts you like boxing, rock-climbing and the martial arts.

2. Do not move out. She should.

3. See a lawyer to know about your rights.

4. Thank God you don't have kids to drag through this.

5. Showing resolve and backbone will garner her respect and re-establish attraction. It's also a wake-up call to her.

Best of luck!!!