Perhaps that is what's scaring me. I detached a little more, and I didn't like the view from that new vantage point.
How does one try to fix a relationship because you believe its more important to have the whole family together - without trying to fix the other person?
Maybe I'm too focused on measuring progress in terms of changes in her versus changes in me. I just don't understand how to measure changes in me emotionally and socially without looking at others close to me react...
