sorry bud,
Few thoughts

You need to learn to STFU.
like now

throwing the ring, i get it your anger boiled over of so much pent up. Been there. Not good though.

I think you are dragging your feet in something that needs to get moving.

You should have just told her that you do not want emotions to become involved in the handling of the S and you would like to have a L handle things and that is all.

if she doesnt want to then you can get the agreement drafted and present to her to review on her own.

It all [censored], I know towards the end i did more for the S than i wanted but i think it had to be done.

Do you think you can ever really start any kind of healing for either of you with this s looming? There is o much anger associated with it. need to get it done and put it to bed to begin to move forward to whatever is next. not next in bad but any way.


M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15