[quote=Zues126I think H feels powerless because he can't change you and get you to be the partner he feels he needs (right or wrong), he is at the mercy of the courts as to his future life, ultimately he is faced with either being in a marriage where he feels unfulfilled and undermined, or he is single again only without the freedom and youth he once had and instead with chains around him forcing him to work hard for the rest of his life for a family he feels evicted from. [/quote]
This is very insightful. What a horrible,trapped feeling to have. I think that must be what my H is feeling right now...how he views his choices. And, right now, he is choosing the latter because it seems to "give him the better chance at happiness down the line" (his actual words). Can we convince them through our actions otherwise?
M-51 H-54 2D-27 and 25 M-26 yrs Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15 He moved out 10-3-15 D filed 1-27-16 D final 10-27-16
