Rouky,

Thank you for sharing your post above about how you are forging ahead and looking at your negative contributions to your marriage. I feel like I am looking in a mirror - everything that you said about your mistakes are exactly what I did in marriage as well. My husband also has been having an affair for the last 6 months. But, in the past week he has filed for divorce, bought a house and told the kids we are proceeding with the divorce. I have been pretty devastated all week because I feel like there is no hope left. However, I want your post about all the positive changes you are making for yourself to remind me that I am doing the same. I would love to be in your place of feeling stronger and willing to accept whatever happens to your M because of your strength. Thank you so very much for sharing.


M 44 H 46
M 20yrs T 25 yrs
S15 S12

ILYBINILWY 7/18/15
Move to MBR 9/8/15
Physical Separation 10/10/15
Suspect A 8/2015
Confirm A 12/27/15
D filed by H 2/2/16