So, if Im understanding you correctly, by detaching yourself from W, by starting to get a life for yourself, by focusing on you, by projecting more self-confidence, etc.....and.......
your W is finding you attractive?
From my first post to you:
Originally Posted By: Azzork
You are so worried about doing something to "fix" your marriage and your wife, that you drove her away. That constant chasing is not attractive and will only lead to her having less and less interest in you. You lost yourself in your marriage, and became someone that isnt attractive to her.
So your goals should not be to fix your communication issues or "solve" your W's affairs. It should be to become the most attractive version of you possible. Do you think that she is attracted to a guy weeping uncontrollably at 3 AM? I know my XW wasnt!
So, what to DO? Go get yourself a life. Make some new friends. Reconnect with old friends. Be a super awesome dad. Buy some new clothes/cologne one level up from what you usually wear. And for heaven's sake, leave your W ALONE.
