Sooo...I went back and read Sandi2's 37 rules and this http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2545554#Post2545554

Definitely think that saying sorry no ticket or you is the right thing. The way a WW is described really "nails" it and I need to let her go until she goes through withdrawal from this OM/EA in her fantasy world.