Finding distance, emotionally unhooking, patience, finding things that can keep you mentally positive, finding opportunities to lightly connect (and then not push), all great stuff. Doing those things now.
It truly is like dating again, just with some familiarity.
M46, EXWW46 M15 T17 D20, S19, D13 M - Addiction since 1998 W EA/PA #1 2013/2014 W EA #2 June 2015... BD 1 Big D talk 9/15 BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15 Served D 1/22/16 Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)