thanks painter for the advise. You are right on the whole bringing her back home. I should have just kept them until it was time to drop them off. It was 430 pm when i drop them off and I only have them until 6pm so i figured my daughter needed to rest and get some sleep to feel better, poor baby.
I will surely bring up the whole party event at court. Seems like she is just playing games with me, in court she said i was more then welcome to come to her party. I was even offered to help her plan it. Then last minute she cancels everything and lies.
Well mediation is on the 15th of this month, i guess thats where we decided who keeps what and how much money goes where. I know she is going to take half of everything, oh well! I am just ready to get this over with. I dont want any ties to her anymore. I am ready to move forward with my life with or without her. I never thought i would be in this situation. My commitment to her was 100% real. At times it's hard to comprehend whats really going on. yeah i do miss her, im not going to lie. But this is her decision not mine. I am glad work is keeping me busy and new opportunities are arising which is always a blessing even on these hard times.