When the goal is positivity

[Zues126]

ok, so knowing you did not actually ask him to leave that makes this boundary fairly easy.

You need to state the next time that he says this something along the lines of " i need to make something clear, i never asked or forced you to leave. I understand you may have felt you had no choice, and i know that must have been difficult, but I did not make you leave or ask you to. Please do not represent that to me or others.

I know a boundary has a consequence, but I am not sure what consequence you connect to that.

I could be off, but i have seen it come a few times on your thread so I know it bothers you

I just have one question- why does this matter? Is this a battle we need to pick? Does this bring you closer to R or help the children? Or is being right more important?