Brutus, she only has sole custody because she has them in her new house and is denying me seeing them while it goes through the courts. To me, this is the ultimate betrayal and the mark of the person. True colours ('colors' for you guys across the pond...I cracked a joke!) The funny thing is, the way she acts, it's like I had the affair not her. She couldn't be any more hostile if she came home and caught me in bed with her best friend. My boys are undoubtedly desperate to see me as much me them. I am thinking a little more clearly today but have real anxiety issues with bank defaults, where am I going to live etc. I took my pooch out for a long walk at sunrise. Talk about mans best friend. She is full of unconditional love. I'm living on a 50p pack of biscuits per day at the moment but have some cash coming so will buy fresh veggies and fruit for the weekend. Onwards....
That's such BS what she did to you. That is pure evil, at least my wife and I were able to negotiate 50/50 custody and child support (she pays me). I don't know what to say other than you definitely deserve better. I think once you can find your own place that you can afford, even if it's not nearly as nice, you will start to feel a lot better. My current rent is half of my old mortgage but at least I don't have the bad memories of my old place. You'll be able to envision your future life more and be able to GAL a lot more naturally.
M41 W39 D3 Open Marriage Request by W 6/15 BD 9/15 1st EA 10/15 2nd EA discovered: 1/16 I moved out: 1/16 2nd EA blew apart 2/16 PA 4/16 I've had enough, filing for D
