Otw... It is another incident of its black to me and he says white. He could be in denial, he could be gaslighting, he could be saying it cause a lawyer told him to.

Stupid question I guess.

How would I stand up to that and make it a boundary?

Fo...thanks always for your support, humor and honesty (even when it's brutal and doesn't put one in the best light...cause I love knowing I am not the only one out there)


Me: 42
H: 43
Twins age 5
Physically Separated 7/2015