, as this clearly hits his exposed nerves of powerlessness.
How is he the one without power when he is the one that left? He has the power to choose whether he wants reconciliation or to move on. I am the one without the power.
Any insight as to Why does he keep saying I kicked him out?
the only thing i can think of is how i think back to some things W would say to me about how she can't make me happy. This is when she was telling me how she wanted to be done and i was still begging and pleading.
it is their way to change things to where they are not making this decision but forced to. it makes them feel ok with it.
another example is the day before she moved out and I discovered the amounts i should give her in support are different than what we thought. I told her I can't give more than I am supposed to and she said she planned on that money and needs to, I said i know it is hard but i didn't want this and to is her decision , so she immediately said you're right but there are plenty of reasons, just like this. Meaning how i wouldn't just give in to her.
they need to validate themselves however they can
I think you should stand up to that and make it a boundary he can not say to you anymore
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15
