I will try to find the post. It was a really insightful one.
Would returning back to work full time be a request to be put on a list as a necessary step for working on a marriage?
In jims case, is quitting smoking a fair request?
When does it become a way of controlling someone to do what they want. Kind of like "I'm not happy. I'm gonna leave. Then so they will do things my way I come back only if they agree to my terms".
I totally understand that fidelity, and transparency are necessary when there was an affair
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015